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“Engaging elderly persons in worship and in the life of the church is about much more than finding the right balance of older and newer styles of worship. It is about relationships. It is about maintaining connections and re-membering people who far too often feel on the periphery of or even cut off from their family of faith. It is about finding ways to tell stories, to listen, and to hear how faith has grown and changed over a lifetime.”
—Bill Gaventa, “Beyond Singing Hymns,” © June 2019, ReformedWorship.org, CC BY-NC-SA.
Eighty and Over Sunday” emerged in the life of a small, rural congregation I was serving. It struck me that we had a significant number of elderly in our midst—people who for years had lived their faith and shaped the life of the community. We were wanting to hold some special services to be an evangelical outreach to those affiliated with or known to the congregation but who did not regularly attend. A service and reception honoring the elderly among us seemed a good way for families and friends to reconnect in a positive, life-giving way.
Acquired disability is the norm as we age. An acquired disability occurs after birth, typically from accident, illness, or increasing age. According to the U.S. Census Bureau, 71 percent of Americans aged eighty and older have a disability. Statistics Canada has found that 43 percent of Canadians over seventy-five live with a disability.
In my ministry with seniors, I have discovered that while some may be hesitant to talk about their own deaths, it is an important pastoral focus that can lead to very meaningful discussions. To facilitate that conversation I created a funeral planning form (“My Funeral Preferences,” see p. 37) which I’ve found to be a helpful tool. Asking an elderly person about favorite Bible passages and songs can lead to rich sharing. Some great questions are:
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