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“Christians often plan elaborate weddings, pouring great care and expense into the flowers, the music, the garments, and the feasting that follows the ceremony. But so does the world. The difference ought to show in the way Christians make all these elements part of worship. Christian weddings needn't be elaborate or expensive, but they must be honest and fitting. And the time, effort, and money we put into them must be in proportion to the care and attention we give to other important aspects of our lives.
Let our wedding celebrations be joyful and exuberant, a ‘foretaste of the great feast that is to come.’ Those words are usually reserved for our Sunday worship with the Lord's Supper. But in some ways the celebration of a Christian marriage may exhibit a greater foretaste of the marriage supper of the Lamb than most typical Sunday services do.”
—Emily R. Brink, “You’ve Been Invited to a Wedding,” © June 1990, ReformedWorship.org, CC BY-NC-SA.
This wedding liturgy sets the bride and groom’s story in the context of God’s story. The entire ceremony took about 1 hour 15 minutes total. To help you with your planning, estimated times are included in parentheses behind each element. If you wish, you may use multiple readers for the readings, which is a wonderful way to include children in the ceremony. Images, song lyrics, and congregational readings (which are not included in full here) were projected on a screen.
I’ll never forget my visit to see the famous leaning tower in Pisa, Italy. I had not realized that the tower was a bell tower at the east end of the church in Pisa, a separate building with bells that would peal when someone died. I actually became more interested in the building at the other end of the church—the round baptistery, a separate building dating from the thirteenth century built just for baptisms, with fantastic acoustics.
Music and weddings go together hand in hand—in fact, music gives voice to the celebration in ways no other medium can! While the church considers weddings to be private family events, the gathered guests, who function as the congregation, can and should have opportunity to praise God joyously, pray for the bride and groom’s new life together, and encourage them with Scripture. Much of this can happen in song!
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