Build Your Church—A Prayer of Lament Acknowledging the Disunity of the Church

Published September 28, 2026

Updated September 28, 2026

Tree hidden by fog

This prayer of lament for a broken church can be used on World Communion Sunday to acknowledge the disunity even amidst our unity or on other occasions when this prayer is particularly appropriate. 

 

God of grace and glory, 
        build your church.
Spirit of wisdom and understanding, 
        calm our chaos.
King of peace, 
        grant us your peace. 

 

We lament the disunity 
        in the church today.

We lament the distraction

from the church’s witness. 

We lament the suffering 

of those most affected by disagreements.

We lament the  brokenness 

of our church community.

 

Forgive us, Lord, 

for judging each other.

Forgive us 

for leaning on easy answers.

Forgive us 

for our pride and taking sides.

Forgive us 

for our lack of grace and mercy.

 

We grieve 

for those who have left the church.

We grieve 

broken friendships and family relationships.

We grieve 

for all who have lost their way in the chaos.

We grieve 

for those who have no hope.

 

God of the Church, 

hear our cries for reconciliation.

Show us your image in the other. 

Make us burden-lifters for those with heavy hearts.

Make your church an oasis in a sea of chaos. 

 

Open our ears 

to hear your voice through the words of others.

Open our eyes 

to see you in the faces and actions of those around us. 

Open our hands 

to serve all who have needs.

Move our feet 

to step toward each other, not away.

 

Shine your light into our confusion.

Bring reconciling peace to all. 

Bring healing to our hearts and the hearts of others. 

Bring the good news of the gospel to the world. 

 

We pray for each other, even those we disagree with.

Remind us that we are your children—

we are family, not enemies.

Show us your great love and unite us in humility and grace.

May our witness be strong so that by our love

the world will know that You are God. 

 

God of grace and glory, build your church.

Spirit of wisdom and understanding, calm our chaos.

King of peace, grant us your peace.

Amen. 

—Diane Dykraaf © 2026 ReformedWorship.org CC BY-NC-SA 4.0