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Tree in six panels

This is part of the worship series, "Rooted and Established in Love”Introduction  Week 1 | Week 2 | Week 3  | Week 4—World Communion Sunday   Week 5 | Week 6 | Week 7 | Week 8—All Saints /Reformation SundayWeek 9 | Week 10 | Week 11 | Week 12—Christ the King SundayWeek 3: The Calling TreeScripture: Exodus 3Faith Practice: Obedience and DiscipleshipGatheringCall to WorshipNow Moses was tending the flock of Jethro his father-in-law, the priest of Midian, and he led the flock to the far side of the wilderness and came to Horeb, the mountain of God. There the angel of the Lord appeared to him in flames of fire from within a bush. Moses saw that though the bush was on fire it did not burn up. So Moses thought, “I will go over and see this strange sight—why the bush does not burn up.”When the Lord saw that he had gone over to look, God called to him from within the bush, “Moses! Moses!”And Moses said, “Here I am.”“Do not come any closer,” God said. “Take off your sandals, for the place where you are standing is holy ground.”—Exodus 3:1–5 NIVPrayer of ConfessionAlmighty God, so often we, like Moses, fear what it means to be called by you. So many times we look at the risks, we look at our own inadequacies for the task, we look around and see so many other people who are better equipped to serve you, and we shy away or close our ears to hear your call. We ask, “Who am I to be used by you?” But God, you say to us again and again, “I will be with you.” You, God, will be with us because you are almighty, you are everlasting, and you are always faithful. Your grace is enough. Amen.Assurance of Pardon“Your Grace Is Enough” MaherWordScriptureExodus 3MessageThe Calling TreeResponseGuide to Grateful LivingJoining the mission of God,the church is sentwith the gospel of the kingdomto call everyone to know and follow Christand to proclaim to allthe assurance that in the name of Jesusthere is forgiveness of sinand new life for all who repent and believe.The Spirit calls all membersto embrace God’s missionin their neighborhoodsand in the world:To feed the hungry,bring water to the thirsty,welcome the stranger,clothe the naked,care for the sick,and free the prisoner.We repent of leaving this work to a few,for this mission is central to our being.—Our World Belongs to God, para. 41, © 2008, Christian Reformed Church in North America, Grand Rapids MI. www.crcna.org. Used by permission.SendingParting Blessing Now may the God of peace, who brought back from the dead our Lord Jesus, the great shepherd of the sheep, by the blood of the eternal covenant, make you complete in everything good so that you may do his will, as he works among us that which is pleasing in his sight, through Jesus Christ, to whom be the glory forever. Amen.—Hebrews 13:20–21 NRSVUESong “Thuma mina / Send Me, Lord” South AfricanRevised Common LectionaryYear A: Season after Pentecost—Proper 17 (22)

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Tree in six panels

This is part of the worship series, "Rooted and Established in Love”Introduction  Week 1 | Week 2 | Week 3  | Week 4—World Communion Sunday   Week 5 | Week 6 | Week 7 | Week 8—All Saints /Reformation SundayWeek 9 | Week 10 | Week 11 | Week 12—Christ the King SundayWeek Two: The Dying TreeScripture: Genesis 3Faith Practice: Forgiveness and GraceReflection: What does it mean to live forgiven? How might that reality shape our living and our relationships with one another? GatheringCall to WorshipOn this Lord’s day, we, as beloved and chosen people of God,      are graciously called into this place for worship.Christ, who is our Redeemer, our Savior, healer, and giver of life,      beckons our community of faith to come together      and lift our individual and corporate voices to our Lord.It is by God’s gracious invitation that we are called to worship.So, people of God,      we are invited to come to worship not because we ought to,            but because we may;      we come and worship not because we are righteous,            but because we acknowledge our own sinfulness;      we come and worship not because we are strong,            but because we are weak and in need of God’s grace;      we come and worship not because we are whole,            but because we are broken and long for Christ’s restoration.—Kathryn Roelofs © 2025 ReformedWorship.org, CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.Choral Anthem“Jesus Christ the Apple Tree” HelveyPrayer of ConfessionRefrain: “Your Mercy Flows” Sutton  (refrain only, repeating as indicated)Hear our cry, O Lord, for we are a broken people desperately in need of your grace and mercy. We are a broken people whose sins overwhelm us like a flood—some sins blatant, and some so secret we dare not think about them or acknowledge them before you. Hear our cry, O Lord. Hear our silent prayers, our silent longings, our silent confessions before you, laying bare our guilt and sin.We confess our personal sins, the ones we try so hard to hide from others but which are so known to you. We confess all the things that stand as a barrier between us and your gracious desire for our lives. Hear our prayers.RefrainWe confess systemic sins, the troubles and the sufferings in this world that seem so vast and oftentimes so far removed from our daily lives. But we are guilty before you for the sins of this world. Hear our prayers.RefrainWe confess the sins committed against us and our response to those sins. We lament the brokenness we share with our brothers and sisters in Christ. Hear our prayers.RefrainWe call out to you as those who are broken by our own inability to fix our own problems and by our ever-present propensity to make a mess of the beautiful world you have so graciously given us. Take these broken pieces of our lives and our souls and restore them with your mercy.—Kathryn Roelofs © 2025 ReformedWorship.org, CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.Song“Amazing Grace” NewtonAssurance of PardonPsalm 103:8–14 followed by verses 1–4Song“And Can It Be” WesleyWordScriptureGenesis 3MessageThe Dying TreeSermon Notes [During the sermon, Pastor Meg Jenista Kuykendall held up a large terra-cotta pot. She talked about how the previous Sunday was all about human flourishing in the garden and God’s good creation. Then she held the pot over her head and smashed it to the floor. This week was about brokenness and sin, and the destruction was a stunning visual and auditory representation of that. We “pre-broke” several other large pots and handed out rough-edged pieces of the terra-cotta for people to hold and feel during the sermon. During the response time after the sermon, people brought their pieces forward and placed them in a basket. The author reflected on this moment in the blog:  “Broken Pieces, Henry, and the Holy Spirit” The following Sunday, we had a repaired pot in front of the sanctuary, where it stayed for the rest of the series. We had very carefully broken a pot so the pieces could be glued back together. We tried kintsugi, the Japanese technique of using gold or silver resin both to repair and to highlight the cracks, but the substance didn’t stick well to terra-cotta.See “From Brokenness to Beauty: The Parable of the Clay Pots” for another possibility.]ResponseSendingParting BlessingSong“To God Be the Glory” Crouch Revised Common LectionaryYear B: Season after Pentecost—Proper 5 (10)

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Tree in six panels

This is part of the worship series, "Rooted and Established in Love”Introduction  Week 1 | Week 2 | Week 3  | Week 4—World Communion Sunday   Week 5 | Week 6 | Week 7 | Week 8—All Saints /Reformation SundayWeek 9 | Week 10 | Week 11 | Week 12—Christ the King SundayWeek One: The Living TreeScripture: Genesis 2:4–25Faith Practice: FormationReflection: What does it mean that God breathed life into humanity and formed us? What does it mean to grow in the Lord, to be alive in God? How does that connect with our call to care for creation and to be creative, growing, and living children of God?GatheringCall to Worship O Lord, our Sovereign,   how majestic is your name in all the earth!You have set your glory above the heavens.    Out of the mouths of babes and infantsyou have founded a bulwark because of your foes,   to silence the enemy and the avenger. When I look at your heavens, the work of your fingers,   the moon and the stars that you have established;what are humans that you are mindful of them,   mortals that you care for them?Yet you have made them a little lower than God   and crowned them with glory and honor.You have given them dominion over the works of your hands;   you have put all things under their feet,all sheep and oxen,   and also the beasts of the field,the birds of the air, and the fish of the sea,   whatever passes along the paths of the seas.O Lord, our Sovereign,   how majestic is your name in all the earth!—Psalm 8 NRSVUE[Consider a dramatic reading of Psalm 8 involving intergenerational members of the congregation.]Call to Confession[Consider adapting paragraph 10 of Our World Belongs to God.]Prayer of ConfessionCreator God, we thank you for the beauty of your creation and for giving us the privilege of caring for it. We turn to you in prayer as the Maker, Creator, Author of all, acknowledging not only your sovereignty and lordship over all, but also praising you for your creativity, your providence, and your ongoing sustaining work in the creation.God, you saw the mountain ranges, outlining the peaks and the valleys and dusting them with snow, before they came into existence. You imagined the bright colors of the fish in the ocean before the waters teemed with life. You knew the composition of a single human cell, the intricacies and delicate balance of our bodies before they were formed from the dust.You knew each and every one of us long before we were conceived. You knew our thoughts and our actions, and you had a vision for how our lives would flourish and grow. We praise you as the one who is Lord over the big and the small, the vast expanses and the miniscule particles, the big picture and the daily details.We confess that so often we lose sight of the myriad ways you created and continue to create: through scientific advancement, through minds enabled to think and reason, through ways to cultivate farmland to feed both human and animal, through the gifted minds and hands of those who have the ability to teach young and old alike. For the times we forget that your hand is at work in all these things, continuing your good work of creating, forgive us, Lord.For the times we waste, destroy, or apathetically let go, we ask for forgiveness. You created all things and then pronounced them good. You created us from the dust, yet in your own image—your image that is beautiful and perfect and good. You desire flourishing for creation and for all humankind—but how often we fail, underestimating your plans. Instead of flourishing, we hide, we feel unworthy, we do not feel equipped enough or loved enough to do what you are calling us to do. Forgive us, Creator God.We pray that in your creation and in our lives as those made in your image we would flourish and grow in the grace and knowledge of you, our Lord and Savior. May your Holy Spirit fill us so that we might serve you with our whole heart, mind and strength. May we with all creation submit to you as Lord of all.—Kathryn Roelofs © 2025 ReformedWorship.org, CC BY-NC-SA 4.0.Song“Have Thine Own Way, Lord!” PollardAssurance of PardonListen to me, you who pursue righteousness,   you who seek the Lord.Look to the rock from which you were hewn   and to the quarry from which you were dug.Look to Abraham your father   and to Sarah, who bore you,for he was but one when I called him,   but I blessed him and made him many.For the Lord will comfort Zion;   he will comfort all her waste placesand will make her wilderness like Eden,   her desert like the garden of the Lord;joy and gladness will be found in her,   thanksgiving and the voice of song.—Isaiah 51:1–3 NRSVUEWordScriptureGenesis 2:4–25MessageThe Living TreeResponseChoral Anthem “Grow Me, Lord” SchramChildren’s Message[One of our members grew an avocado pit (tinyurl.com/8crc6dac) and brought pits for kids to grow during the series so they could watch the avocado put down roots.]SendingRevised Common LectionaryYear B: Season after Pentecost—Proper 22 (27)

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Three figures walking toward a bright star

This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2 Epiphany 2Fear of Strangers 2God Calls Us to Worship and PraiseCall to WorshipI will extol the Lord at all times;     his praise will always be on my lips.I will glory in the Lord;     let the afflicted hear and rejoice.Glorify the Lord with me;     let us exalt his name together.—Psalm 34:1–3Songs“Praise the LORD! Sing Hallelujah” (st. 1, 3–4) Psalter“Lord Most High” Harris and Sadler Greeting from GodWe Greet Each OtherThe Lord Is Close to the Broken-HeartedCall to ConfessionI sought the Lord, and he answered me;     he delivered me from all my fears.Those who look to him are radiant;     their faces are never covered with shame.This poor man called, and the Lord heard him;     he saved him out of all his troubles.—Psalm 34:4–6Song“Pelas dores deste mundo / For the Troubles” NetoPrayer of ConfessionO Christ, you are the light of the world. Shine into the dark places and expose the sins of greed, oppression, hate and violence. Fill us with love, joy, peace, patience, and a willingness to forgive.O Christ, you are the light of the world. We pray for the homeless, the refugees, the expelled and forgotten people everywhere. Strengthen us in our belief that you are a God of justice. Empower us with the determination to work for basic human rights.O Christ, you are the light of the world. We pray for people everywhere that you would show us how we are to live together as neighbors, understanding and respecting one another. We remember before you the many places in the world where there is conflict between nations. We pray that love may determine a just solution.O Christ, you are the light of the world. As the Risen Christ you broke the chains of death; free us from every kind of oppression. Breathe your Holy Spirit upon us. Make us a people of hope who live in lands where there is peace and justice for everyone.—Pocket Prayers for Peace and Justice, compiled by Christian Aid. Prayers for Peacemakers, page 46, by Women of Jerusalem, Church House Publishing, 2004, © The Archbishops' Council of the Church of England. Used by permission. copyright@churchofengland.org. Assurance of PardonThe righteous cry out, and the Lord hears them;     he delivers them from all their troubles.The Lord is close to the brokenhearted     and saves those who are crushed in spirit.The righteous person may have many troubles,     but the Lord delivers him from them all.—Psalm 34:17–19Song“Blest Are They”  (st. 1, 2, 5) Haas Statement of FaithWhat do you believe about God the Father?I believe in Almighty God,who guided the people in exile and in exodus,the God of Joseph in Egypt and Daniel in Babylon,the God of foreigners and immigrants.What do you believe about God the Son?I believe in Jesus Christ,a displaced Galilean,who was born away from his people and his home,who fled his country with his parents when his life was in danger,and returning to his own country suffered the oppressionof the tyrant Pontius Pilate, the servant of a foreign power,who then was persecuted, beaten, and finally tortured,accused and condemned to death unjustly.But on the third day, this scorned Jesus rose from the dead,not as a foreigner but to offer us citizenship in heaven.What do you believe about God the Spirit?I believe in the Holy Spirit,the eternal immigrant from God’s kingdom among us,who speaks all languages, lives in all countries,and reunites all races.I believe that the church is the secure homefor the foreigner and for all believers who constitute it,who speak the same language and have the same purpose.I believe that the communion of the saints beginswhen we accept the diversity of the saints.I believe in the forgiveness of sin, which makes us all equal,and in reconciliation, which identifies us morethan does race, language, or nationality.What do you believe about the life to come?I believe that in the resurrectionGod will unite us as one peoplein which all are distinctand all are alike at the same time.Beyond this world, I believe in life eternalin which no one will be an immigrantbut all will be citizens of God’s kingdom,which will never end. Amen.—Book of Common Worship, 2018 edition. © 2018, Westminster John Knox Press. Used by permission. All rights reserved.  Special Music“Refugee King (Away from the Manger)” Scheer, Vice, Benedict, and RuthGod Speaks to Us Words of GraceScripture ReadingMatthew 2:1–8, 12–23Message“Fear of the Stranger” (Part 2)We Dedicate Ourselves to God’s Work and Go Out to ServeSong“Imagine” Getty Declaration of FaithHow does the knowledge of God’s creation and providence help us?We can be patient when things go against us,thankful when things go well,and for the future we can havegood confidence in our faithful God and Fatherthat nothing in creation will separate us from his love.For all creatures are so completely in God’s handthat without his willthey can neither move nor be moved.—Heidelberg Catechism, Q&A 28, Translation © 2011, Faith Alive Christian Resources. Used by permission.Even now,as history unfoldsin ways we know only in part, we are assuredthat God is with us in our world,holding all things in tender embraceand bending them to his purpose.The confidence that the Lord is faithfulgives meaning to our daysand hope to our years.The future is secure,for our world belongs to God.—Our World Belongs to God, para. 12, © 2008, Christian Reformed Church in North America, Grand Rapids MI. www.crcna.org. Used by permission.Parting BlessingSong“The Lord Is My Salvation” Getty

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Three figures walking toward a bright star

This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2  Epiphany 1Fear of Strangers 1“Arise, Shine, for Your Light Has Come”Responsive Call to WorshipMay the light of God’s love push back the darkness.We come to the light from the four corners of the earth, from the north, from the south, from the east, and from the west.We come from many nations and many cultures.But we are all one in Jesus Christ.We come seeking the light that guides us to life.But we are all one in Jesus Christ.Let us lift up our many voices and praise the God of all people.—From Reformed Worship 63, © 2002, Worship Ministries of the Christian Reformed ChurchSong“Jesus, the Light of the World”(st. 1–2,  4) WesleyGreeting from GodWe Greet Each Other“See, Darkness Covers the Earth, and Thick Darkness Is Over the Peoples”In-Between WordsGod calls us to live in the light and to walk as people of the light. But on this Epiphany Sunday, we come before the Lord in prayer to confess that we still walk in darkness. We make personal decisions that drive us into the darkness. Our world is one filled with darkness, brokenness, and despair. We are deeply in need of Jesus Christ, the light of the world, to enter in and shine on us. Together we confess in song our need for light.Sung Prayer of Confession“Christ, Be Our Light” (st. 1, 3, 5) FarrellAssurance of PardonThe light of God shines in the darkness. God is calling the whole world together in unity to walk in the light as beloved and chosen people. Open your hearts to God’s light and to one another. Thanks be to God.Song“We Are Called”(st. 1–2)  Haas“Nations Will Come to Your Light, and Kings to the Brightness of Your Dawn”Scripture ReadingMatthew 2:1–12Message“Fear of Strangers” (Part 1)Declaration of PromisesRemember that at [one] time you were separate from Christ, excluded from citizenship in Israel and foreigners to the covenants of the promise, without hope and without God in the world.But now in Christ Jesus [we] who once were far away have been brought near by the blood of Christ. For he himself is our peace, who has made the two groups one and has destroyed the barrier, the dividing wall of hostility.—Ephesians 2:12–14

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Candle and a pinecone

This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2 Christmas EveFear of RevelationCandle of HopePrayer of InvocationWhen the world was dark and the city was quiet, you came.You crept in beside us.And no one knew.Only the few who dared to believe that God might do something different.Will you do the same this Christmas, Lord?Will you come into the darkness of today’s world;not the friendly darkness as when sleep rescues us from tiredness,but the fearful darkness, in which people have stopped believing     that war will end      or that food will come     or that a government will change      or that the church cares?Will you come into that darkness and do something differentto save your people from death and despair?Will you come into the quietness of this city,not the friendly quietness as when lovers hold hands,but the fearful silence when     the phone has not rung,     the letter has not come,     the friendly voice no longer speaks,     the doctor’s face says it all?Will you come into that darkness,and do something different,to embrace your people?And will you come into the dark cornersand the quiet places of our lives?We ask this… because the fullness our lives long fordepends on us being as open and vulnerable to youas you were to us,when you came,wearing no more than diapers,and trusting human handsto hold their Maker.Will you come into our lives, if we open them to you and do something different?When the world was darkand the city was quietyou came.You crept in beside us.Do the same this Christmas, Lord, Do the same this Christmas. Amen.—”When the world was dark” from Cloth for the Cradle, p. 92-93 by the Wild Goose Resource Group, © 1997, 2000 WGRG c/o Iona Community, Scotland, GIA Publications, Inc., exclusive North American agent. Reprints permitted with a license from ONE LICENSE. We hope for an end to the darkness and for the beginning glimpses of light. We hope expectantly as those who wait for a promise that is coming. We light this candle of hope. [Light candle.]Song“O Little Town of Bethlehem” (st. 1, 3–4)BrooksCandle of LoveIn-Between Words“For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life” (John 3:16). On this Christmas night we celebrate God’s gift of love, seen in the birth of Jesus Christ. We light this candle of love. [Light candle.] We are also called to show God’s love to others. Please greet each other and extend Christ’s love to those around you.We Greet Each OtherSong“Once in Royal David’s City” (st. 1, 4–5) AlexanderCandle of PeaceScripture ReadingIsaiah 40:1–11 Song“Lo, How a Rose E’er Blooming”  (st. 1–3) German In-Between WordsThe words of the prophet Isaiah remind us of a coming kingdom where peace will reign and all will be well. Because of the birth of Jesus Christ, we can anticipate peace on earth and pray for the ability to be peacemakers until he comes again. We light this candle of peace and then bow our heads in prayer to pray for the world that God so dearly loves. [Light candle.]Prayers of the PeopleSong“Hark! The Herald Angels Sing” (st. 1, 3)WesleyCandle of JoyIn-Between WordsWe light this candle of joy. Emmanuel is born! Rejoice! Rejoice! [Light candle.] Hear now the glorious story of the birth of our Savior.Scripture ReadingLuke 2:1–20HomilySong of Response“Angels We Have Heard on High” French Lord’s SupperInstitution of the Lord’s SupperLong after the angels vacated the skies, the shepherds left the manger and the Magi traveled home again. On another night—the night of his betrayal, not his birth; the night of his arrest, not his adoration—Jesus sat at dinner with his disciples.On that night, he took bread, and when he had given thanks, he broke it and said, “This is my body, which is for you; do this in remembrance of me.”In the same way, he took the cup saying, “This cup is the new covenant in my blood. Do this in remembrance of me.”As we eat this bread and drink this cup, we remember and proclaim the mystery of our faith:Christ has died.Christ is risen.Christ will come again.Great Prayer of ThanksgivingThe Lord be with you.And also with you.Lift up your hearts. We lift them up to the Lord.Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.It is right for us to give thanks and praise.With joy we praise you, gracious God, Eternal Creator. At the beginning of time your rescue plan of salvation began with the work of Your hands, fashioning our planet and spinning our galaxies into place.Through history you sent prophets and priests to point the way and to shape the expectations of your people longing for rescue from sin and salvation from bondage to sin’s effects.Until, at last, in the fullness of time, our Savior and Redeemer was born.Though he could not find hospitality in his own city, his birth offers the world the eternal hospitality of God.Song“Of the Father’s Love Begotten”  (st. 1–3) Prudentius We give thanks to you, Jesus Christ, who came among us as the Word made flesh to show us a new and radiant vision of your glory, full of grace and truth.Therefore, we join our voices with the angel choirs who forever sing glory to your name.Song“Of the Father’s Love Begotten” (st. 4–5) Prudentius By the power of your Holy Spirit, unite us with Christ and all who share this feast. Give us courage to live according to the promise of this night, to be your people, showing forth your justice, grace, mercy, peace, and love until the day when the baby whose birth we celebrate tonight comes again in fullness and peace.Then we will feast with all your saints in the joy of your eternal realm.Through Christ, with Christ, in Christ, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor are yours, almighty God, now and forever. Amen.InvitationThe church father Ambrose of Milan wrote about the significance of this evening, saying:“He became an infant and a child so that your humanity might be made perfect. He was wrapped in swaddling clothes so that you might be absolved from the bonds of death. He was on earth so that you might be in heaven. He had no room at the inn so that you might have mansions in heaven. He was in a manger so that you might be at the altar.”—Ambrose, Exposition of the Gospel According to Luke 2:41The gifts of God for the people of God![Distribution of elements while singing “What Child Is This” Dix]Candle of LightScripture ReadingJohn 1:1–5, 14We light this candle of light, for Jesus Christ, the light of the world, has been born for us.[Light candle.]Song“Silent Night! Holy Night” MohrParting BlessingThe joy of the angels, the eagerness of the shepherds, the perseverance of the Magi, the obedience of Joseph and Mary, and the peace of Jesus Christ be yours this Christmas.The blessing of Almighty God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—be upon you and remain with you always. Amen.

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Purple and pink candles

This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2  A Longest Night Service Based on Psalm 80Fear of DarknessCall to WorshipResponsive ReadingJesus said, “Come unto me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest” (Matthew 11:28). And so we invite each other to this time of peaceful worship. Tonight we come looking for the Christ child.We bring in our hearts the hopes and fears of all the years.We come seeking relief from pain, anxiety, loneliness, and despair. With the psalmist of the Scriptures we say, “I cry to you, Lord; I say, ‘You are my refuge, my portion in the land of the living.’ Listen to my cry, for I am in desperate need” (Psalm 142:5–6).We bring in our hearts the need and desire to rest in God.We come to worship, to sing, to pray, to be silent before our God. In the busyness of this season, in a countercultural way, we chose this evening to slow down, to remember, and to wait.I wait for the Lord, my whole being waits, and in his word I put my hope.I wait for the Lord more than watchmen wait for the morning,more than watchmen wait for the morning (Psalm 13:5–6).Song“Wait for the Lord” TaizéPrayer of InvocationO God, our beginning and end, by whose command time runs its course: Bless our impatience, perfect our faith, and keep us from growing weary until at last the coming Christ enters the hearts of those who wait with quiet expectation for all that is good and holy and just. Amen.Praying for Darkness in a Year of Glare1st voiceLord, turn out the lights.Turn out for moments of our prayersand for moments of our livesall the lights we see by,or all the lights we think we see by.Make it dark in here, even now, in each of us. 2nd voiceHere in the half-drowned worldthat we surrender to when we sleep,we feel the dark river that flowsthrough every heartbeat,the pulse of our oldest and deepest music. Congregational Response “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel” (st. 1, no refrain) Latin2nd voiceWith all our old symbols of candles and torches, with our little logos of lamps of learning,since ancient times we have always been taughtto seek and pursue the light.But sometimes now we shield our eyes from all the glitter and glare. 1st voiceWe have trivialized our ancient symbols of light.We haven’t learned to governthe new light we uncover or make.This is what we are learning to fear:Our own light. Our idol. Ourselves. Congregational Response “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel”(st. 2, no refrain) Latin1st voiceWe see how we have hurried past the visionthe psalmist knew, that Jonah, Job, Mother Teresa, and so many others knew to be true, that even in the dark God is there. “The Lord has said that he would dwell in thick darkness” (1 Kings 8:12) 2nd voiceKeep us now and then in the dark, Lord—The dark of Golgotha, or Paul’s black jolton the way to Damascus, or the grapple of Jacob,to be renamed Israel, wrestling his wayin the dark from eyesight to vision.We pray for darkness so that we may see. 1st voiceAs we wait in the darkwe do sometimes see tracings and splinters,a flicker of our dream of the world you gave us,sparks and flashes we almost remember. 2nd voiceWe seek moments of blindness and insightso that we may be truly onewith the dark and lowly servant,paradoxically “light of the world,”who came to share our darkness with us.In his name have we dared to askfor dark as well as for light. Congregational Response “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel”(st. 4, no refrain)  Latin 2nd voiceNow we rest in quiet for a moment     in the shadow of the Almighty,remembering Moses and     the dark cloud where God was,remembering at least to say what the psalmist used to sing;     “He made darkness his covering,     his canopy around him—          the dark rain clouds of the sky.” 1st voiceParent God, cover us, your adopted children, as in blankets,in what St. Hildegarde called “the cloud of unknowing.”Hold us here in darkness a moment more, a moment more.We want to see again from behind the eye;it is here we can dream and remember and imagine deeplyas Hebrew prophets did, as children do. Congregational Response“O Come, O Come, Emmanuel” (st. 3, no refrain)  LatinSo now we pray you, Lord—do not yet dispel the dark; dispel the light a little longer.Silence 2nd voiceNow stilled by this primal dark,children again who feel alone and lost,we pray for light. 1st voiceLet it be a flicker that grows as it approaches,not harsh or blinding, a flashlight through the woodsthat’s coming to find us. Congregational Response “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel”  (st. 5, 7, no refrain) Latin2nd voiceAs we emerge out of this dark into light, show us, God,as for the first time, freshly, the rich glowings of our different skins,the eyes of the oppressed piercing dark skies like beacons,the flares of wonder that play in the eyes of our children. Congregational ResponseBy way of darkness, seeing fresh, Lord,we pray to live again in the wonder of light. Amen.—© Rod Jellema, d. 2018. Used by permission. Churches interested in using “Praying for Darkness in a Year of Glare” may email pavlicekmarie@hotmail.com for permission.“O Come, O Come, Emmanuel”(st. 6, with refrain)  Latin  Ministry of the WordScripture ReadingPsalm 80:1–10HomilySong of Response“Shine On Us” SmithMinistry of PrayerPrayers of IntercessionWith refrain “Come and Fill Our Hearts” TaizéWe light this candle to remember those who have died, and those who mourn the dead. The shadow of death can seem impenetrably dark during these long nights. We pray to God, whose first act in creation was to call light from darkness.     RefrainWe light this candle to remember those who are captive to darkness. For those lost in the night of addiction, depression, anxiety, or unexpected grief, we pray to God, who guided the Israelites through the darkness with a pillar of fire.     RefrainWe light this candle to remember those who feel that hardship will overwhelm them. For the poor, the persecuted, the hungry, the immigrant, the refugee, and the homeless, we pray to God, who walked with three men through the consuming flames of a fiery furnace.     RefrainWe light this candle to remember those who are battling illness. We lift up those who suffer the pain, indignity, and bewilderment that accompany a broken body. For all who desire to be returned to wholeness, we pray to God, who lit the night sky with a star to guide three Magi to the healing Christ.     RefrainWe light this candle to remember those who are alone. We remember those who isolated from loved ones; far from home; wandering down the wrong path; or convinced that God is unconcerned with their suffering. We pray to God, who is like the woman who lit a lantern to search all night for one lost coin.     RefrainWe light this candle to remember God’s beautiful and fragile creation. For those who experience drought, flood, disease, famine. For survivors of natural disasters and for all those called to be caretakers of creation. We pray to God, who will not destroy the earth but purify it with refiner’s fire that goodness may be restored.     RefrainYou alone see us as we are, Lord God, so we ask you to nurture us according to our need tonight, to minister to us according to our wounds, to heal us in all the places you can see that we are broken or sick. Come and fill our hearts with your peace. Alleluia. Amen.Prayer StationsDuring this time you may visit the prayer stations or pray quietly in your seat.1. AnointingCome forward to a pastor for anointing with oil and for personal prayer. You may ask for prayer for yourself or another person and can be as specific or private as you need. Please indicate whether you’d like anointing on your hand or forehead.[Words of blessing: Restore your child, O God; make your face shine upon him/her/them, that he/she/they may be saved.]2. CandlesLight a candle in remembrance of a loved one, in solidarity with someone who is hurting, or as a representation of your own need and prayer.3. MapMany areas of our world are in need of Christ’s light to break through the darkness of war, poverty, conflict, and strife. Light a candle and place it in the area of the world where you pray for Christ’s light this Christmas.Sent Out with God’s BlessingSong“O Little Town of Bethlehem” (st. 1) BrooksPrayer for God’s BlessingLord, it is night. The night is for stillness. Let us be still in the presence of God.It is night after a long day. What has been done has been done; what has not been done has not been done; let it be.The night is dark. Let our fears of the darkness of the world and of our own lives rest in you. The night is quiet. Let the quietness of your peace enfold us, all dear to us, and all who have no peace.The night heralds the dawn. Let us look expectantly to a new day, new joys, new possibilities.In your name we pray, amen.Song“O Little Town of Bethlehem”(st. 3–4)  Brooks Please leave the sanctuary in silence.Visual Arts Ideas That Highlight Advent Lament1. Create a video of the key headlines of the past year with images and set to an appropriate song such as was done with this one created for 2016 (https://youtu.be/kCui6wFAuk4). The fact that many of the same images could have come from this past year is in itself cause for lament.2. Wrap advent candle/wreath in burlap sprayed with a flame retardant

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This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2  Advent 4Fear of a Ruined ReputationJoy to the World, the Lord Is Come!Advent Candle Lighting: Joy As we anticipate the birth of Jesus Christ, we light candles of hope, love, and peace as reminders of the promise that Emmanuel is our God with us and that God graciously gives us these gifts even if they sometimes come in ways that are mysterious to us. [Light three candles.] On this fourth Sunday of Advent, we light the candle of joy. We fix our eyes on Jesus Christ, the author and perfecter of our faith. For the joy set before him, he came down to earth and took on our humanity, endured the cross with all its shame and sat down at the right hand of God in heaven. The day is coming when there will be everlasting joy to the world, for our Lord will come! Let all the earth receive her king! We light this candle of joy in anticipation of that day. [Light fourth candle.] Please stand as we join our voices with the heavenly voices to sing our joy.—Some sentences adapted from Hebrews 12:2Songs “Joy to the World” (st. 1–2, 4) Watts “O Come, All Ye Faithful” (st. 1–3) Wade Greeting From GodWe Greet Each OtherLet Every Heart Prepare Him RoomSong “Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus” (st. 1, 3–4) Wesley Prayer of Confession Come, thou long-expected Jesus, come. Sometimes we have a hard time imagining that you would come down from the glorious splendor of heaven to be born in a Bethlehem stable with straw, mud, and animals all around. We cannot imagine that you willingly took on our broken human flesh with bodies that ache and suffer from illness and pain. You walked into our sadness, into wars, into violence and persecution, and you did this all for us. We confess that it is difficult to comprehend and difficult to believe. Why, Lord, would you do that for us? We call you Emmanuel, God with us, but how often do we live out this Christmas story with the truth that your incarnation was for us? Continue to enter in, Emmanuel. Enter into our darkness and give us light. Enter into our lives and change them for your good purposes. Enter into our hearts and still them with the words “Be not afraid.”Song “Imagine” Getty Assurance of Pardon / Guide to Grateful Living In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus: Who, being in very nature God, did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage; rather, he made himself nothing by taking the very nature of a servant, being made in human likeness. And being found in appearance as a man, he humbled himself by becoming obedient to death—even death on a cross! Therefore God exalted him to the highest place and gave him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, in heaven and on earth and under the earth, and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.—Philippians 2:5–11Children of God, this is the God who forgives our sins and calls us to obedience and love. Thanks be to God.He Comes to Make His Blessings Flow Far as the Curse Is FoundScripture Reading Matthew 1:18–25Message “The Fear of a Ruined Reputation”Response with Song “Christ, Be Our Light” (st. 1–2, 4–5) Farrell He Rules the World with Truth, Grace, and Wonders of His LoveCall to Service By the power of your Spirit,we will walk in the light. In times of joy and gladness,we will walk in the light. In times of sorrow and despair,we will walk in the light. Called to witness to your love,we will share the light.Parting BlessingSong“Jesus, the Light of the World” (st. 1–2, 4)Wesley 

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This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2  Advent 3Fear of RevisionCome and Worship!Advent Candle Lighting: Peace On the first Sunday of Advent, we lit the candle of hope and were reminded to put our hope in God’s promises of a peaceful kingdom. [Light first candle.] On the second Sunday of Advent, we lit the candle of love to represent God’s love for us through the incarnation of our Savior, Jesus Christ. [Light second candle.] This morning we light the candle of peace. We wait for God’s promises of peace on earth and good will to all. We pray that God’s peace would break through our restless hearts and lead us to Bethlehem, where we can celebrate our Savior’s birth. We light this candle of peace. [Light third candle.]Children’s Choir Pageant “Away in a Manger” 19th c. North American“Go, Tell It On the Mountain” SpiritualResponsive Call to Praise We have heard the story of Jesus Christ with joy and anticipation.We have come to worship. We open our hearts to prepare room for his coming.We have come to worship. We open our ears to hear the choirs of angels proclaim his holy birth.We have come to worship. We open our lives to God’s greater plans for us.We have come to worship. Through the grace of God’s Holy Spirit,we have come to worship Christ, the newborn King.Songs “Angels from the Realms of Glory” (st. 1, 4–5) Montgomery“Hark, the Glad Sound! The Savior Comes”(vs 1–2, 4) Doddridge  Restore Us, O God, and Make Your Face Shine upon UsSong “Meekness and Majesty”(st. 1, 3) Kendrick Prayer of Confession with Spoken Response There is mystery in the season of Advent and mystery in the story of Jesus’ birth. God works in mysterious ways, using ordinary people like you and me to accomplish God’s plan of salvation and kingdom work. But we gather for prayer to confess that we aren’t always eager to allow God to work in us. We prefer our own ways over God’s mysterious ways. We prefer darkness over light. So we pray using words from Mary’s song (Luke 1:46–55), and we ask God to make God’s face shine on us and to open our hearts to God’s will for our lives. When I say “Restore us, O God,” please respond with “and make your face shine upon us that we might be saved.”Let us pray.Our souls glorify you, O Lord, and our spirits rejoice in you, our Savior!For you have been mindful of the humble state of your servants.You have heard our cry and saved your people.We shall be called blessed because we are called by you to be a blessing to others.Your mercy extends from generation to generation.Your mercy called Adam and Eve into being.Your mercy kept vengeance from taking Cain’s life.Your mercy saved Noah and his family from the flood.Your mercy caused Sarah’s womb to be fruitful.Your mercy gave Joseph’s dreams the power to save a nation.Your mercy heard the Israelites’ cry and called Moses to action.Your mercy charged Mary with the most special of tasks.Your mercy strengthened Joseph to care for her.Your mercy sent Jesus Christ into the world to save us from the dark of night.We give you thanks for your mercy; may it continue to shine upon us!Restore us, O God,and make your face shine upon us that we might be saved.We remember this day thosewho crave your shining face,who long for the light,who need your power to drive out the darkness:For those who live with depression or other mental illnesses. [pause]For those who cannot bring themselves to forgive others. [pause]For those who cannot forgive themselves. [pause]For those who seek refuge, but have been denied shelter. [pause]For those who seek shelter, but have been denied a home. [pause]For those who have lost loved ones in the past year. [pause]For those who have lost physical or mental abilities. [pause]For those who care for aging spouses or loved ones. [pause]For those who have been living with cancer and other debilitating illnesses. [pause]Restore us, O God,and make your face shine upon us that we might be saved.We ask that you would strengthen us as a congregation:as we serve one another and those with whom you called us into fellowship,as we seek to bring hospitality and hope to our community,as we discern where you might be leading us,as we hold in tension that which we have been with that which you call us to be,as we seek to be the best stewards of the money and gifts with which we’ve been blessed,as we search for the truth of your word and do our best to live it out in our lives,as we wait, watch, and wonder in preparation for the coming of your Son.Restore us, O God,and make your face shine upon us that we might be saved.Gracious God, on this Advent journey,may we wait with Mary’s joyful anticipationas we prepare to welcome your Son, our Savior,into this broken world in need of his redeeming.Gather us, guide us, and keep us as your people.Send us into the world so that our hands might beChrist’s own, and his mind one with ours in all thatyou would have us do.Restore us, O God,and make your face shine upon us that we might be saved.Amen.“May Your Word to Me Be Fulfilled”Scripture Reading Luke 1:26–45Message“The Fear of Revision”Dramatic Reading “How the Grinch Learned the Magnificat,” by Rev. Emmy R. Kegler Song “My Soul Cries Out with a Joyful Shout” (st. 1–3) Cooney Parting BlessingSong “My Soul Cries Out with a Joyful Shout” (st. 4) Cooney

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This is part of the worship series, "Be Not Afraid”Series Introduction and Prelude  Advent 1 | Advent 2 | Advent 3 | Advent 4 | Longest Night | Christmas Eve | Epiphany 1 | Epiphany 2  Advent 2Fear of DisappointmentPraise Be to the Lord, the God of Israel, Because God Has Come to His People and Redeemed ThemAdvent Candle Lighting: Love Last Sunday we lit the candle of hope and were reminded to put our hope in God’s promises of a peaceful kingdom. [Light first candle.] On this second Sunday of Advent, we light the candle of love. Our God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16). We light this candle to remember God’s love, which brings joy to the world and peace on earth. [Light second candle.]Choral Anthem“Joy to the World” arr. ProulxResponsive Reading Rejoice in the Lord always.I will say it again: Rejoice! Let your gentleness be evident to all.The Lord is near. We rejoice in the hope of Christ’s coming.Rejoice! Rejoice! —adapted from Philippians 4:4–5Songs “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel” (st. 1–2, 7) Traditional“Come, Thou Long-Expected Jesus” (st. 1–3, 4) WesleyGod Shows Mercy to Our Ancestors and Helps Us Remember God’s Holy CovenantSong “My Soul in Stillness Waits” HaugenPrayer of Confession Emmanuel, God with us, we confess how hard it is for us to wait. Like Zechariah, we have a hard time waiting on you, and we lose hope so quickly when it seems as though you aren’t answering our prayers in the ways we hope. Sometimes your timing is mysterious. Sometimes you answer our longings and our prayers in ways we have a hard time comprehending. Take away all the barriers in our lives that keep us from being able to hear you, to know you, and to love you with all our hearts. And give us ears to hear your gentle voice saying, “Be not afraid.” Amen.God Gives God’s People the Knowledge of Salvation through the Forgiveness of Their SinsScripture Reading Luke 1:5–25Message “The Fear of Disappointment”Responsive Music “I Shall Not Want” AssadGod Shines on Those Living in Darkness to Guide Our Feet into the Path of PeaceSending Litany In this Advent season of waiting on the Lord,We trust in the Lord’s goodness.We rely on his mercy.We find shelter in his steadfast love. In this Advent season of waiting,Lord, we await your salvation.We await your leading,We await your coming. In this Advent season of waiting on the Lord,We walk in the Lord’s way.We keep our covenant promises.We follow his example of love. —Adapted from Harry Boonstra, Reformed Worship 9, © 1988 Worship Ministries of the Christian Reformed Church. Used by permission.God’s Blessing The same voice that speaks over the waters and calls us to follow and obey,the same voice that promises “I am your God, you are my people,”the same voice that spoke “This is my beloved Son,’now blesses the people with peace:“So do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God.I will strengthen you and help you; I will uphold you with my righteous right hand”The blessing of Almighty God—Father, Son, and Holy Spirit—is with you now and forevermore. Amen.—Based on Psalm 29:2, 9; Exodus 20:18; Matthew 3:17; Isaiah 41:10Song“How Firm a Foundation” (st. 1–3, 5)18th century

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